mseverchanging50
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8:40
hello....this is kirbys mom

Violetlotus
AIM
8:40
I am sending Kirby's things to her tomorrow
8:40
I really don't have anything else to say
8:40
I am burning the two discs I forgot right now

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:40
i don't understand...why you are upset...because we dont have the money...to help you pay your bills

Violetlotus
AIM
8:40
it isn't about paying bills
8:40
on Friday I was not goint to go to the con

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:41
its about her not buying a sweat shirt from you

Violetlotus
AIM
8:41
Kirby told me flat out to go because she was going to place an order with me on Monday
8:41
I believed her
8:41
so we went because I was confident in her paying me
8:41
she knew that we were taking the money from our gas money budget
8:41
but she ASSURED me that it wasn't a problem

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:42
a lesson you should know by now....you shouldn't count your eggs... (or sales) before you have them

Violetlotus
AIM
8:42
I talked to her on Monday asking her what was going on and she told me that things were happening and that was fine
8:42
I figured that since she was a friend that I could trust her

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:42
it isn't about trust

Violetlotus
AIM
8:42
which is a hard lesson to learn but has not happened before

mseverchanging50
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8:42
its about....how much money...we DONT have

Violetlotus
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8:42
but the fact remains that she KNEW I was counting on that and I got stall story after stall story
8:42
but she told me that she D
8:42
DID have it
8:43
and that is where I am angry
8:43
if she wouldn't have told me that I wouldn't have been as upset
8:43
but she acted like she did have it and that you were the one keeping her from sending it
8:43
if you would like I have the logged conversations

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:43
i am the one that told her....you are charging too much

Violetlotus
AIM
8:43
I only make $2/hour on them
8:43
the materials alone cost me $25

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:43
no dear....i don't beleive its neccessary for you to LOG her conversations..or for me to see them

Violetlotus
AIM
8:44
look I understand that she is your daughter and upset
8:44
but Kirby has treated my sewing as a hobby from the beginning
8:44
this is my business that I do on to pay for gas and bills so that I can earn my degree and open my store

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:44
look.....i understand.....that you made an accusation towards me

Violetlotus
AIM
8:44
and as I said her things will be sent out tomorrow
8:44
an accusation?
8:45
ask her about all the accusations she has made about you
8:45
about you hitting her and such

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:45
well...at this point....i think its best you return her money....if you have "KICKED" her out....she has no need for those items

Violetlotus
AIM
8:45
what money?
8:45
for her wig? it is sitting here

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:45
the money for the wig

Violetlotus
AIM
8:45
I already paid for it
8:45
I am sending it off to her as well as her fabric
8:45
that she paid for
8:45
I am sending her the goods that she paid for
8:46
and the $6 for the 6 discs that got screwed up when I tried to burn them

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:46
as i have told her...you can't trust people on here...to truely be your friends
8:46
you are old enough to know

Violetlotus
AIM
8:46
yeah I knew that years ago
8:46
but meeting her in person made me a bit too comfortable I guess

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:46
if so....you shouldn't be so upset...over her not being able to buy a sweatshirt

Violetlotus
AIM
8:46
unfortunately being a mom has made me soft and I trust too easily
8:47
uhm, hello, she made a commitment that means she should honor it

mseverchanging50
AIM
8:47
and you should be responsible enough...having a family..not to spend money you don't have

Violetlotus
AIM
8:47
and frankly I don't need lip from you about it
8:47
she will get her things
8:47
end of story
8:47
please do not bother me anymore